How To Attract Females - Confusing Indications And Flirting

When we are referring to the topic of "picking up women." I often get asked what to do to be able to "pick up women", or just "how to pick up women".

I not long ago got asked the doubt: "Why do girls flirt with you and when you flirt back they reject it? It's so confusing!!!" I thought it was wonderful and significant enough to share.

First of all, women have different qualities. What is being described here is a sort of personality, not all females in general. The personality type that usually does this kind of behavior is a little insecure. They are testing the water, but they don't just want to make a start.

The best way to handle this personality type is when you find it is not to react, not to take the bait so to talk. Let the girl flirt all she likes, let her take the lead. Let her control how the association goes. If you don't react, she will get comfortable with you and steepen the gradient progressively. If you react (flirt back) she will often run away.

Difficulty is, however, people with similar or compatible personalities are likely to hang out together. So quite often you can get the impression that the whole world is one way, when in fact it may be only a certain percentage of humans who are like that. So if you always think ALL women are one way, change your environment. Go to some other place, meet different people in different situations and perhaps you will notice different personality types and possibly one that is more compatible with you.

Now having said that, let's view it from a different angle. Women in general love flirting for flirting's sake more than gents do. Men will flirt because they are interested in a woman. Girls will flirt to see if they get a reaction, to check if they are looking good and are attractive, even when they are not interested in a man. They will flirt with a person they are only interested in being friends with.

One solution to get better hold of these situations is to observe all the communication channels that a woman is applying to communicate - Like oral, emotional, physical, mental, and sexual communications.

When a lady likes you she is likely to communicate that she likes you through all of the communications modes. When she is just playing around she will give you mixed communications. So when you see a woman flirting with you, but she does not support the flirting by showing you she likes you over ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation seriously.

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